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I think he wanted help with other stuff, but she felt there was too big a moral gulf between them for her to be able to help him in good conscience. Quote:
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I have loads of anecdotes from friends & family members who received terrible advice from pastors that they knew & trusted, although I can’t really vouch for the non-crappiness of those pastors.
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![]() I've always been under the impression that the goal of therapy is to assist a person in coming to these conclusions through self-reflection. If you don't feel that you are wrong, will that change because someone tells you that you are?
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![]() Yeah because "its wrong" is a moral assertion not advice. Advice needs to be couched in achieving the patient's goals. So a counselor can say that cheating on your spouse will likely cause the marriage to break down, but cant just say "it's wrong dont do it." Because not everything is so clear cut and moral priorities are different for different people. Like what if a patient wanted to date someone outside of their religion, some religions including a lot of christianities teach that is "wrong".
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